Letter 15


Letter 15: The Power of Forgiveness in Our Family

Dear Partner,

One of the most profound gifts we can give our children is the ability to forgive. Forgiveness is a cornerstone of peace in any relationship, but it is especially important in a family dynamic. In our home, we need to model forgiveness not only toward others but also toward ourselves.

As parents, we make mistakes—sometimes small, sometimes big. We may snap at each other, fail to keep our promises, or forget something important. But our children are watching how we deal with those mistakes. They are learning how to handle their own mistakes by watching us handle ours.

When we are able to apologize, take responsibility for our actions, and forgive each other, we teach our children that making mistakes doesn’t mean we’re failures. It’s part of being human. What matters is how we respond, how we make things right, and how we learn from it.

Forgiveness doesn’t just mean letting go of grudges—it’s about actively working to heal the wounds we create, whether they’re intentional or unintentional. We need to show our children that forgiveness doesn’t come with conditions. It’s about offering grace, even when it’s hard.

There may be times when we argue or disagree with each other, and I know that can be difficult for our children to witness. But it’s also an opportunity. When we show them that it’s okay to be upset, but also show them how to make amends, we give them a model of healthy emotional regulation and conflict resolution.

I promise to always work toward forgiveness in our relationship, to teach our children that holding on to anger or resentment only creates more pain. Instead, we’ll show them how love can heal, how apologies are powerful, and how to let go of past hurts to move forward in harmony.

By doing this, we’re not only strengthening our bond as partners, but we’re also giving our children a life lesson that will serve them well in all of their relationships.

With love  

Your partner 

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